There will never be such thing as a good break up and anyone who has ever gone through one will confirm this. Break ups have that way of making us look at ourselves in a very different light and make us re-evaluate ourselves. Break ups are so moving that it can make even the toughest men shed a tear or two.
Immediately after a break up, people will be giving you their solicited or unsolicited advice and most of them will include the motherhood statements of "it's just not meant to be" or "move on" but all these lines won't do anyone good.
But these often go through deaf ears because you only want to get your ex girlfriend back.
When it comes to attempting a reconciliation, there is no tried and tested method of doing so.
But because women are generally more receptive to the idea of getting back together because of the way that they look at relationships, your goal may not be that far ahead.
Keeping a respectful distance from an ex is only but normal right after a break up. Really, would you even consider wanting to talk to somebody who has shown you the door?
Another thing, there's going to be that air of awkwardness that will deter anyone of you from picking up that phone. Not to mention being labeled as desperate.
Nonetheless, the rules all change when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Once you decide to go through this path, you need to be the first one to reach out.
With the technology that we have now, sending friendly text messages is enough to make her warm up to you again. I am not suggesting sending her poems but casual messages are enough to keep you in her radar.
Lastly, if you want to be in her "maybe" list and not in her "exes: do not resuscitate" list, then always be thoughtful enough to remember all special dates which includes birthdays and the holidays.
Women can't resist the thought of being cared for and being the center of one's universe. A greeting card can create that impression.
Immediately after a break up, people will be giving you their solicited or unsolicited advice and most of them will include the motherhood statements of "it's just not meant to be" or "move on" but all these lines won't do anyone good.
But these often go through deaf ears because you only want to get your ex girlfriend back.
When it comes to attempting a reconciliation, there is no tried and tested method of doing so.
But because women are generally more receptive to the idea of getting back together because of the way that they look at relationships, your goal may not be that far ahead.
Keeping a respectful distance from an ex is only but normal right after a break up. Really, would you even consider wanting to talk to somebody who has shown you the door?
Another thing, there's going to be that air of awkwardness that will deter anyone of you from picking up that phone. Not to mention being labeled as desperate.
Nonetheless, the rules all change when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Once you decide to go through this path, you need to be the first one to reach out.
With the technology that we have now, sending friendly text messages is enough to make her warm up to you again. I am not suggesting sending her poems but casual messages are enough to keep you in her radar.
Lastly, if you want to be in her "maybe" list and not in her "exes: do not resuscitate" list, then always be thoughtful enough to remember all special dates which includes birthdays and the holidays.
Women can't resist the thought of being cared for and being the center of one's universe. A greeting card can create that impression.
